# Sunan Abi Dawud - General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)

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**1 hadith**

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## Hadith #5181

**Book:** General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab) | **Narrator(s):** Abdul Qahir bin Shu'iab bin al-Habhab عبد القاهر بن شعيب بن الحبحاب, Abu Barda bin Abi Musa al-Asha'ari أبو بردة / الحارث بن أبي موسى الأشعري, Abu Musa al-Asha'ari, Hameed bin Hilal حميد بن هلال, Hisham bin Abi 'Abdullah al-Dastawa'i هشام بن أبي عبد الله الدستوائي, Zayd bin Akhzm زيد بن أخزم | **Grade:** Hasan

Abu Musa asks permission, al-Ash’ari ask permission, and ‘Abd Allah b. Qais asks permission, but it was not granted to him. So he went away and ‘umar sent for him saying: what did you return? He replied: The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) said: When one of you asks permission three times and it is not granted to him, he should go away. He said: Establish the proof of it. He went, came back, and said; This is Ubayy. Ubayy said: ‘Umar, do not be an agony for the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him). ‘Umar said : I shall not be an agony for the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ).

*Source: [ParallelQuran](https://parallelquran.com/hadith/sunan-abi-dawud-5181/)*

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