“I heard the Messenger of Allah say: ‘The deceased is punished in his grave due to the wailing over him.”‘
“I came to Al-Madinah and sat with ‘Umar bin Al-Khattab. A funeral passed by and the deceased was praised, and ‘Umar said: ‘It is granted.’ Then another passed by and the deceased was praised, and ‘Umar Said: ‘It is granted.’ Then a third passed by, and the deceased was criticized, and ‘Umar said: ‘It is granted.’ I said: What is granted, O commander of the believers?’ He said: ‘I said what the Messenger of Allah said: Any Muslim for whom four people bear witness and say good things, Allah will admit him to Paradise.’ We said: ‘Or three?’ He said: ‘Or three.’ We said: ‘Or two?’ He said: ‘Or two.”‘
“A Bedouin brought a rabbit to the Messenger of Allah that he had grilled and placed it before him. The messenger of Allah refrained from eating but he told the people to eat. The Bedouin also refrained from eating, and the Messenger of Allah said to him: ‘What is keeping you from eating?’ He said: ‘I fast three days of each month.’ He Said: “If you are going to fast, then fast the bright days (Al-Ghurr).”