Abu Bakr bin Abu Jahm bin Sukhair Al-Adawi said: “I heard Fathima bint Qais say: ‘The Messenger of Allah said to me: “When you become lawful, tell me.” So I told him.’ Then Muawiyah, Abu Jahm bin Sukhair and Usamah bin Zaid proposed marriage to her. The Messenger of Allah said: ‘As for Muawiyah, he […]
the Messenger of Allah said: “A widow has more right (to decide) concerning herself than her guardian, and a virgin should be consulted”. It was said: “O Messenger of Allah, a virgin may be too shy to speak.” He said: “Her consent is her silence.”
the Messenger of Allah said: “A previously-married woman should not be married until she is consulted, and a virgin should not be married until her consent is sought, and her consent is her silence.”
his father said: “The Messenger of Allah said: ‘A previously-married woman can speak for herself, and the consent of a virgin is her silence.’ ”
Mughirah bin Shubah said: “I came to the Prophet and told him of a woman to whom I had to propose marriage. He said: ‘Go and look at her, for that is more likely to create love between you.’ So I went to a woman among the Ansar and proposed marriage through her parents. I […]
the Messenger of Allah said: “A man should not propose to a woman to whom his brother has already proposed.”
Mughirah bin Shubah wanted to marry a woman. The Prophet (ﷺ) said to him: “Go and look at her, for that is more likely to create love between you.” So he did that, and married her, and mentioned how well he got along with her.
his grandfather said: “The Messenger of Allah said: ‘You should marry virgins, for their mouths are sweeter, their wombs are more prolific and they are satisfied with less.’”
Anas bin Malik said: “I heard the Messenger of Allah say: ‘Whoever wants to meet Allah pure and purified, let him marry free women.’ ”
the Messenger of Allah said: “Marry, for I will boast of your great numbers.”