Abdul 'Aziz bin Muhammad al-Daruradi عبد العزيز بن محمد الدراوردي · The Book on Marriage

The Messenger of Allah said: "Publicize this marriage, and hold it in the Masjid, and beat the Duff for it."

The Prophet said: "A matron should not be given in marriage until she is consulted, and a virgin should not be given in marriage until her permission is sought, and her silence is her permission."