al-Hasan bin 'Ali al-Halwani الحسن بن علي الخلال الحلواني · The Book on Jana''iz (Funerals)

Amrah informed him that she heard Aishah, while it was being mentioned to her that Ibn Umar had said that the deceased would be punished for the crying of the living (over him). So Aishah said: 'May Allah forgive Abu Abdur-Rahman. He has not lied, but he is mistaken in the understanding. Rather, the Messenger of Allah passed by a Jewish woman who was being cried over, so he said: 'They are crying over her and she is being punished…

"The Messenger of Allah prohibited plastering graves, writing on them, building over them, and treading on them."