Ash'ath bin Abi al-Ash'atha أشعث بن أبي الشعثاء · Chapters On Zuhd

"Indeed among the excellence of a person's Islam is that he leaves what does not concern him."

" O Muhammad! A man loves the people but does not catch up to them (in deeds)." So the Messenger of Allah(s.a.w) said: "A man shall be with whomever he loves."