Muhammad bin Ja'far Ghandar محمد بن جعفر غندر صاحب الكرابيس · The Book on Marriage

"The Messenger of Allah refused Uthman bin Ma'zun (when he asked) regarding celibacy, and if he had permitted it for him, then we would have castrated ourselves."

The Messenger of Allah said: "The matron has more right to herself than her Wali, and the virgin is to give permission for herself, and her silence is her permission."