Yazid bin Harun يزيد بن هارون · The Book on Jana''iz (Funerals)

The Messenger of Allah said: "Nothing afflicts the believer, whether fatigue, grief, disease - even a worry that concerns him - except that by it, Allah removes something from his bad deeds."

"When the news of the death of Ja'far came, the Prophet said: 'Prepare some food for the family of Ja'far, for indeed something has happened to them that will keep them busy.'"

"Indeed the Messenger of Allah cursed the women who visit the graves."