“I heard Abu Hurairah say: ‘Someone from the family of the Messenger of Allah died, and the women gathered, weeping for him. ‘Umar stood up and told them not to do that, and threw them out, but the Messenger of Allah said: Let them be there, O ‘Umar, for the eye weeps and the heart […]
“The Messenger of Allah said: ‘He is not one of us who strikes his cheeks, rends his garment, calls out the calls of the Jahiliyyah.”‘
“Abu Musa fell unconscious and they wept for him. He said: ‘I say to you the words of disavowal that the messenger of Allah said: He is not one of us who shaves his head (as a sign of mourning), rends his garments, or raises his voice in Lamentation.”‘
“He is not one of us who strikes his cheeks, rends his garment, and calls the calls of the Jahiliyyah.”
“When Abu Musa was close to death, his wife started to scream.” They said: “He woke up and said: ‘Did I not tell you that I am free from what the Messenger of Allah is free?” They said: “He used to narrate that the Messenger of Allah said: ‘I am free from the one who […]
“The deceased is punished due to his family’s wailing for him.” A man said to him: “A man died in Khurasan and his family wailed for him here; will he be punished due to his family’s wailing?” He said: “The Messenger of Allah spoke the truth and you are a liar.”
‘The deceased is punished due to his family’s weeping over him; Mention of that was made to ‘Aishah and she said: ‘He is wrong; rather the Prophet passed by a grave and said: The occupant of this grave is being punished and his family are weeping for him.” Then she recited: And no bearer of […]
, when she was told that Ibn ‘Umar said that the deceased is punished due to the weeping of the living for him, ‘Aishah said: “May Allah forgive Abu ‘Abdur-Rahman; he is not lying, but he has forgotten or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah passed by a (deceased) Jewish woman for whom people […]
“Aishah said: Rather the Messenger of Allah said: ‘Allah, the Mighty and Sublime increases the punishment of the disbeliever due to some of his family’s weeping for him.”‘
“I heard Ibn Abi Mulaikah say: ‘When Umm Aban died, I attended with the people. I sat in front of ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar and Ibn ‘Abbas, and the women wept. Ibn ‘Umar said: ‘Why don’t you tell them not to weep? For I heard the Messenger of Allah say: The deceased is punished due to […]