Dhakwan Abu Salah al-Saman al-Ziyat ذكوان أبو صالح السمان الزيات · The Chapters on Divorce

"Subai'ah Aslamiyyah bint Harith gave birth twenty-odd days after her husband died. When her postnatal bleeding ended, she adorned herself, and was criticized for doing that. Her case was mentioned to the Prophet (ﷺ) and he said: 'If she does that, then her waiting period is over."'

the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) swore to keep away from his wives, because Zainab had sent back her gift and 'Aishah said: "She has disgraced you." He became angry and swore to keep away from them.

the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) gave Barirah the choice.