Hameed bin Musa'da bin al-Mubarak حميد بن مسعدة بن المبارك · The Chapters on Marriage

that a man among them who was called Khidam arranged a marriage for his daughter, and she did not like the marriage arranged by her father. She went to the Messenger of Allah and told him about that, and he annulled the marriage arranged by her father. Then she married Abu Lubabah bin Abdul-Mundhir.

the Messenger of Allah said: "If it exists, it is in three things: a horse, and woman and a house," meaning omens.