Hashaym bin Bashayr bin al-Qasim هشيم بن بشير بن القاسم · Chapters Regarding Funerals

“We went out with the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) to attend a funeral, and he saw some people who had cast aside their upper sheets and were walking in their shirts only. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: ‘Are you adopting the practice of the days of ignorance?’ or; ‘Are you imitating the behavior of the days of ignorance? I was about to supplicate against you that you would return in a different form.’ So they put their sheets back…

“The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) forbade writing anything on graves.”