Yahya bin Sa'id bin Farroukh al-Qatan يحيى بن سعيد بن فروخ القطان · Chapters Regarding Funerals

“We went out with the Prophet (ﷺ) and when we reached Al-Baqi’, we saw a new grave. He asked about it and they said: ‘(It is) so-and-so (a woman).’ He recognized the name and said: ‘Why did you not tell me about her?’ They said: ‘You were taking a nap and you were fasting, and we did not like to disturb you.’ He said: ‘Do not do that; I do not want to see it happen again that one of…

“The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) forbade following a funeral that was accompanied by a wailing woman.”

“The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) opened a door that was between him and the people or drew back a curtain and he saw the people praying behind Abu Bakr. He praised Allah for what he saw of their good situation and hoped that Allah succeed him by what he saw in them.* He said: ‘O people, whoever among the people or among the believers is stricken with a calamity, then let him console himself with the loss of me, for…

“Breaking the bones of the deceased is like breaking his bones when he is alive.”